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Can you give me a piece of advice?

1, my brother had project date a last warning on his/its degree, but he/it wastes much duration with his/its friend, and I am worried for him/it.
2, we move to USA and with totally even for card have any money. My dear uncle gives us vorläufige housing, but his/its 2 dogs are uncanny.
3, before driving to U.S., in 2 months, will spend 1 months with my in-lawed relatives, on which I become really not healthy, we in Germany because my sister after law is such a tyrant.
4, the a good matter is, I have philosophy stipend, that begins January in genetics, a doctor of this but I got my M.Sc 7, and I am exact from appointment with my course, therefore I struggle to develop before my course, begins.
5, my husband was in the habit of being abusive, was not for the last month, however, and I plan, as it left him/it, if I am clarified financially in U.S., so I become troubled and am emphasized on the future and if I can lead this separation.
6, I have a baby of 1.5 years old, and I struggle to be a good mother to her. But I want aufhören, to nurse, in order to start, to use food pills, to lose about any weight, but I place auf\'t to find seems, this will race to food!

Thinks I, that my main problem is financial worries, want to borrow any money from a family member in Germany, that is, my husband, why we first go there, but it didn\'t guarantee, I am worried this something if he/it doesn\'t lend us any money!

I was an intelligent, glad girl, I don\'t know as I finished this so miserably being and a loser after the marriage with no will power. I weiß in the future, everything will be O.K., but the gift kills me.

Can you give me, any advice fells?

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Wisely I pass out money financially never and only save. I am für financial management very well, but my husband wastes the whole money, he/it was plundered recently and looks for another work the 1 months long, that is left. No matter, like hard I me während the last 3 years troubled, I couldn\'t changes him/it, he/it got into .20,000 debts for my name, and we be go behind all bills, so many debt collection agencies and his/its salary of all, he/it passed out everything. I couldn\'t works according to my baby.

through mikeyjam...

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Wow, I am sorry to hear about all he/it.

You/they got a good head on your shoulders, you should be glad. If you saved money, that groß is.

I propose to leave your husband because you never should be abused, particularly, if you have a small baby. Waits, until you itself financially lowermostit can ützen, before you go, he/it is a clever move. But yes, he/it seems to tow you with him/it down. You/they place auf\'t, this earns. he/it seems to be the reason that you don\'t have any willpower.

As you don\'t provide your education so, that is gotten far in that of U. for you. Concentrate aufw for itself with itärts on your education and your custody, to get your degree, and then, as soon as you comes be difficult \'t to the states, that it won, to support itself and your baby. Many companies in the United States create programs für individual parents increasingly.

I definitely would say that you are a clever person. You/they have a baby, who seems, despite all of this Umstände, to well really have lifted, you have a doctor of the philosophy in genetics, and you know how money is to be led. I think Sie\'ll is fine. Only you continue to study in Germany as you prepare for your course.

Also, if you comes be I sure to the states, if you leave your husband, that your family will be to be helped there to support you. Bemühen you itself only, to concentrate on a matter at a time, however. At the moment, only focuses on your daughter and the school. Always do something, it takes, about fähig, to be, to pull up your child, and goes to the school, whether this entails to leave your husband, or not, for now. Don\'t, where you will be living, because that won\'t be important, if you mißlingen to be daughter for you there and to help itself/themselves worries about it. Don\'t worries about this other stuff until you let enough money saved.

Well, I hoped this helped. Glück with all!

Mike.

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